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BINDERS, COMPRESSION, APPAREL, etc.:
Snuggler Athletic Style - $17.95 «—I wear this style the most
Tranzwear offers way more styles of specially-made packing underwear, ranging from 15-24 dollars. And it’s an FTM-run company. Check it out! (They also carry soft packers and STP devices)
Go Girl STP Device [ignore the girl part of the name this thing is great! it is soft, folds up nicely, and has a big cup to catch everything.. and if pink doesn’t do it for you, there’s a khaki option, too.]
This one looks like you may be able to pair it with a packy, but no promises - I haven’t heard of anyone’s experiences with this guy.
Diva Cup Size A: For the pre-T guys who don’t want to mess with tampons/pads/etc.
HARNESSES, DILDOS, PUMPS, ETC.
My hard packer of choice is The Goodfella by Vixen. It is made from “VixSkin” which is really realistic feeling and it looks pretty realistic, too. It’s basically the perfect length and girth, and my favorite feature is that the balls are not attached to the base, so when worn in a harness they are totally visible and accessible. And like all of Vixens dicks, it comes in multiple skin tones.
«Click the picture to purchase The Goodfella from Babeland.
For a SOFT PACKER, Bableand has two great options (both of which I own):
«Their affordable “soft pack” (which only comes in pink these days.
«And Mr. Right, which is a more expensive, but nicer (and firmer) packer that (as you can see) comes in three skin tones.
If you are looking for a packer that you can pee through, as well, STP-Fitz carries well-made and comfortable STP packers (I own one).
For hard packing and intercourse, I highly recommend Spare Parts Joque Harness.
The super-comfortable Spareparts harness transforms an everyday dildo into your cock, with an effortless fit that makes a sex toy feel like a natural extension of your body. Sturdy, swimsuit-like material lined with breathable triple mesh fits like a second skin on almost anybody—no gaps, chafing buckles or pinched skin. And you’ll love that it’s waterproof, machine washable, and accommodates toys up to 2” in diameter.
I have found that it is fairly easy to wear under clothing and it is INCREDIBLY easy to get in and out of, which makes everything seem much more natural and can alleviate some sex-related dysphoria.
Another option is the Commando Harness, which is made out of leather and is also recommended for hard-packing under clothing.
And if you have the bucks to spend, I recommend wearing the WeVibe while you are wearing yr harness and dick. Without going into detail (I’ll let Babeland do the explaining), let me say that this makes harness/dick intercourse as pleasurable for you as it is for yr partner.
And let us not forget lube! Lube is yr new best friend. I used to be all cocky and “I don’t neeeed lube,” but the truth is lube never hurts and always helps!
I’d say Sliquid H20is the way to go - odor-free and not sticky at all.
But sometimes a nice warming lubecan help with our colder silicone ‘attachments’.
And for those of you looking to enhance our natural junk, Babeland has pumps! and I have heard a lot of great things about Boston Pumps.
First, Babeland’s Pump & Cylinder Kit (complete with how to guides for cocks and clits)
[according to Transguys.com, you should buy the package with a cylinder about twice the length of yr penis/clitoris and 50% more than yr girth… i.e. If yr penis is 1” long and 1/2” in diameter, use a 2-inch, 3/4-inch diameter cylinder]
Prosthetics & other shops:
http://www.stp-fitz.org/servlet/StoreFront (great STP packers)
http://www.lolajake.com (a wide range of prosthetics)
http://www.tyron2.net/ (less heard of quality prosthetics with the ability to become totally hard and usable for sex simply by pumping the balls)
http://www.ftmprosthetics.com/prices.htm (Australian-based very well-made prosthetics - he sells hair as well.)
http://tuboq.com/ocart/ TuBOQ store with all kinds of transition products